December 2011
5 posts
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
November 2011
4 posts
the best revenge is living well: cloveflowers:... →
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my…
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
October 2011
5 posts
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
http://cloveflowers.tumblr.com/post/10682253942/clo... →
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my…
September 2011
4 posts
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
cloveflowers:
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done....
August 2011
250 posts
I’ve been asked to make a post regarding my accountability. I used this blog as a means to cross a survivor’s boundaries (a clear one that was set only weeks earlier) by posting details about my accountability to them without checking in first. I still need to be disclosing my patterns of abuse to folks, and I need to be talking with the survivor first about how that is done. ...
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on being femme in public:
[TRIGGER WARNING: misogyny, mis-gendering, harassment, rape culture]
Note to self: never leave or come to my apartment through the alley alone.
Sometimes it works in my favor; sometimes I can charm my way into getting them to do things for me. I could probably learn to utilize their perceptions of my body even more than I already do. But that would involve talking to them. That also would...
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NO NO FUCK YOU FOREVER
I think it’s someone in the building next to mine. Someone who blasts “The Real Slim Shady” every. fucking. day. In addition to various other terrible rap songs, terrible hair metal songs, and terrible pop songs. But mostly Eminen. and it is happening right now while I am trying to watch True Blood and can hardly hear it over this misogynistic bullshit. :(
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Some thoughts on science and reality
dandytrans:
While reading the essay by Romanyshyn and Whalen (1989), I was struck by a passage on the Mueller-Lyer illusion (pictured above). Romanyshyn and Whalen argue that “scientific knowledge” which presents itself as “true” and “real” knowledge “demands that one turn away from the given appearance of things and toward some supposedly true reality or reason behind them” (p. 22). In the...
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all my period means is spending all day in bed...
opendrawer asked: Your post(s) about ice cream inspired me to go buy a tub of neapolitan ice cream too. Good times will commence very soon.
brazenbitch asked: Let's paint our nails and be fatties
Reblog if you have a beautiful penis.
~it’s shiny and silicone and in the drawer next to my bed~~~
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“The only thing that anyone can diagnose, with any certainty, by looking at a fat...”
– Marilyn Wann, “Fat Studies: An Invitation to Revolution” (via oppressmenot)
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fetishizing guns pt. II
readnfight:
firesandwords:
cloveflowers:
[TRIGGER WARNING]: guns, violence
About three months ago, I posted this and didn’t get any really satisfying conversations out of it. I’d like to think my thoughts have developed some since then, and it’s a conversation I’m still interested in having. To reiterate what I was saying in the first post: I’m basically thinking about radical and “scene...
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transsupremacy replied to your post: fetishizing guns pt. II
anarchists are considered domestic terrorists. I think that is a part of what the reclamation is about. Anarchists have been persecuted as terrorist for as long as the term terrorist has been around.
I feel like there’s a huge disparity between who that word gets placed on, and how persecuted different people are for it...
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[TRIGGER WARNING] trans erasure, gender policing,...
sabbatofwolves:
Terrorist Fag!: Against “genderqueer” appropriation and its facilitation.
vacousdispatch:
terroristfag:
sabbatofwolves:
vacousdispatch:
terroristfag:
sabbatofwolves:
terroristfag:
Just because you *think* you do gender “weirdly” does NOT mean your are suddenly genderqueer.
Just because it’s a general rule not to assume people’s pronouns doesn’t mean a...
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fetishizing guns pt. II
[TRIGGER WARNING]: guns, violence
About three months ago, I posted this and didn’t get any really satisfying conversations out of it. I’d like to think my thoughts have developed some since then, and it’s a conversation I’m still interested in having. To reiterate what I was saying in the first post: I’m basically thinking about radical and “scene kid”...
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~mental health day~
gonna spend the first half of my day making vegan corn pudding and eggplant-potato moussaka with pine nut cream (ilu Veganomicon.) gonna spend the second half of my day cleaning up and drawing? reading? watching gay movies?
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[TRIGGER WARNING: body image, rape.] I want to be...
eagle-shapedmirror:
I’m just throwing my 2 cents in here… those girls don’t exist!! I have a thin neck and ya i’m skinny but i also have long thin monkey looking arms that i HATE. Nobody is PERFECT…GET OVER IT. this shit just annoys me.
i want to be that adorable chubby woman who always has cookies in her pockets and a novel in her purse. i want to be the woman fights for equality and...
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omg omg omg~ best day ever →
Holy fucking shit, that gay cowboy shirt (this one) is a fucking Vivienne Westwood shirt circa 1975, there’s pictures of Sid Vicious and Siouxsie Sioux wearing it!!! aslgdhslakgk today, I am a happy fag. So so so much love to grrrlfoxxx for letting me know~
Seriously though, how did I just stumble into owning a piece of punk history?
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